Obituary for Elwood B. Parker, Jr
Published by the Arlington Park
Funeral Home & Cemetery
Elwood "Woody" Belmont Parker, Jr., 87, passed away peacefully on February
16, 2019. Woody was born on May 23, 1931 in Rocky Mount, NC to the late
Elwood and Myrtle Parker.
Woody grew up in Lake Wales, FL, and graduated
from Lake Wales High School in 1950. During his teenage years, Woody
enjoyed helping out at his dad's dry-cleaning plant, working at the local
movie theatre, and most of all, leading a dance band called the
Stardusters. He attended Florida State University (FSU) for three years
before enlisting in the army, where he served two years at Fort Jackson, SC
as a radio and Morse Code instructor. He re-entered FSU in 1955 and
graduated in 1956. While attending FSU, Woody was captain of the track team
and a member of Delta Tau Delta social fraternity and the Men's Glee
Club.
Woody married Eugenia "Genie" Ogden on December 8, 1956. They
settled in Jacksonville, FL where they lovingly raised two daughters. They
were members of both the Lakewood United Methodist Church, where Woody
taught Sunday school and sang in the choir and the Arlington United
Methodist Church where he served as a Stephen Minister with his wife,
Genie.
Woody had a long career in marine insurance, employed by both the
HOME and Aetna Insurance Companies. A man of many talents, Woody engaged in
a variety of activities in his free time. When not at work, he was most
often found in his garage (more like a workshop) crafting rowboats,
hydroplanes, wooden soldiers, beautiful dollhouses (complete with lights
and carpeting) for his daughters, dollhouse furniture, Barbie beds, and
chairs made from soda cans. He also built model airplanes which he proudly
hung from the garage ceiling. It goes without saying that Woody was a star
in the neighborhood. In fact, one little boy frequently rang the doorbell
asking if Mr. Woody could play. He even designed and built his own games,
including H.O. slot car tracks and a clever football game played with
marbles on a wooden base. He also exceled at photography and developed his
own pictures, using a bathroom as a darkroom.
Woody's musical talents
were equally as impressive. He played a mean trumpet and ukulele. In his
later years, he taught himself to play the harmonica and could play just
about any song requested by his adoring fans. His daughter's personal
favorites included "Bonapart's Retreat," "You Are My Sunshine," "Waltzing
Matilda," "Oh What a Beautiful Morning," and "What a Wonderful World." He
was also known to fill the halls of his retirement home with his
spectacular rendition of the song, "Maria" from Westside Story.
In
retirement, he and Genie enjoyed life's simple pleasures, such as walking
up and down the Regency Square Mall, having coffee at Starbucks and Panera,
and spending time with their grandson, Douglas. Woody was also a licensed
HAM Radio Operator and thoroughly enjoyed chatting with his fellow hams
over the airwaves.
Woody was preceded in death by his parents, Elwood
and Myrtle. He lives on in the hearts of his wife, Genie; daughters, Ruthie
Brown (Doug), Rachel Myers Weissman (Alan); grandson, Douglas Brown;
brothers, Richard Parker (Betty), Robert Parker (Ruth Anne); nephews,
Stephen Parker, Randy Parker; and niece, Jennifer Pskowski (Dean).